What is Mindful Movement (and why does it matter?)
In all honesty, when I use that phrase, most people look at me with a puzzled look on their face. Not quite sure what it means. But, if I say the word “exercise”, everyone gets that.
What Is Mindful Movement?
Mindful movement takes traditional “exercise” and turns it on its head. It brings your intuition front and center and encourages you to really get to know your body and your capabilities where you are right now.
It allows us to recognize that we go through seasons in our life and health and how we move our bodies today might shift tomorrow. Or, what is more common in my work as a coach, is that how we once moved our bodies (pre- chronic illness) is no longer the way we are physically able to move today.
Depending on who you talk to, the definitions of “mindful movement” will vary, but my definition is:
moving your body in an intuitive way that is joyful and fun, rather than punishing and exhausting.
Why Is “Exercise” a Problem?
Exercise in and of itself is not necessarily a problem. That said, so many of us have a really unhealthy history with exercise, which is one of the reasons why I don’t always use that term when I’m writing or talking about the topic. I find that for some “exercise” can be a trigger word, so I prefer to skip it depending on who I’m talking to.
The truth of the matter is that we have grown up in a culture that celebrates thin bodies and shames fat bodies. In order to get that thin body, we are told to just eat less and exercise more — advice that has led to an increase in eating disorders and unhealthy relationships with our body. “Exercise bulimia” is a real thing, friends. Google it.
On a side note, the whole “calories in, calories out” theory has been busted time and time again (a quick Google search will yield tons of results, including this short read from Harvard Medical School), yet people still believe that health and fitness is as simple as burning more calories than they consume.
If we eat something we “shouldn’t” eat the night before, we slave away in the gym the next day for an extra hour to compensate. If we want to eat something later we “shouldn’t” eat, we slave away in the gym in the morning to get in a calorie deficit so we don’t have to feel guilty about eating it.
But let’s face it. That guilt is still here and likely we will exercise even longer and harder the next day to compensate for our “bad” behavior. I look back on all the years that I spent slaving away in the gym feeling guilty for something I ate. Punishing myself with more exercise than I could healthfully tolerate at the time. It makes me sad…
Don’t get me wrong. I’m not saying we shouldn’t participate in vigorous exercise (if we are physically and emotionally capable). I’m saying that there is a line that is crossed when exercise moves from something we do because we enjoy it, into something we do as a form of punishment or compensation for our “bad” behavior.
The Dangers of Too Much Exercise
Our bodies need movement. We need exercise. We need to keep the blood moving and the lymph flowing. We need to gently challenge our cardiovascular system and our lungs. Exercise supports brain health and improves immune function. These are all good things, when done the right way, with the right mindset.
That said, exercise becomes dangerous when it becomes compulsive or obsessive. When we adjust our whole life to make sure we always have 1, 2, 5 hours in the gym a day. When we skip family and social events because we need to work out. When we sacrifice sleep because we need to “hit the gym”.
When exercise becomes our primary driving force in our life, rather than just one of the many tools we use to maintain health, we are treading on very thin ice and need to seek help. Not only does over-exercise cause issues for us emotionally, but it also creates problems physically.
Extreme endurance exercises (think marathons, triathlons, or even just too much distance running) can lead to enlarged arteries and heart damage. It can cause scar tissue and thickening of the heart’s wall. (source)
One study found that women who exercised strenuously every day we more likely to suffer from a stroke or heart attack than those who exercised less frequently or more moderately. (source)
Women who over-exercise are at higher risk of amenorrhea (losing their menstrual cycle), bone loss, malnourishment, and eating disorders. (source)
People over-exercise can experience mood changes due to the stress and inflammation that it puts on the body, which interfere with hormone production and regulation. (source)
Insomnia, mental fatigue, brain fog, and elevated resting heart rates are also common among those who exercise too much. (source)
And more… there is a looooooong list of drawbacks to over-exercise, but I’ll stop here.
Please note that in the vast majority of compulsive exercisers their behavior does NOT stem from a place of wanting pristine health. Instead, the root cause is most often linked to a desire for their body to look different, based on what our society has deemed beautiful or acceptable.
It’s important to remember that good health does not require hours of running, lifting weights, or slaving in the gym. Physical fitness can be obtained through a variety of less strenuous methods (think walking, yoga, rebounding, dancing, hiking, etc.).
Why Mindful Movement Matters
Mindful movement matters because it moves the focus from the outside world to our inside world. It teaches us that our bodies are what they are and they are fully capable of being loved and respected, no matter the size.
Moving our focus inwards reminds us that we have value. We have worth. We are capable of great things. We don’t have to listen to what society tells us, we can listen to what WE tell us.
Mindful movement matters because it allows us to uncover ways of moving our bodies that feels good and makes us happy. It helps us tune into our inner wisdom here and now, and then make empowered decisions about how we are going to treat ourselves on any given day.
Mindful movement matters because it takes into account our physical, mental, and emotional limitations and honors them rather than pushing them aside.
Examples of Mindful Movement
Mindful movement can truly be anything you want it to be. The only guidelines are:
Are you moving your body in this way because you truly enjoy it or because you feel obligated (by your spouse, friend, doctor, society, etc.)?
Are you being mindful and respectful of your current mental, emotional, and physical limitations?
Is the movement creating joy, or is it creating stress?
Do you feel energized and uplifted after participating in the movement, or are you run down and exhausted?
Do you truly LIKE this movement and would participate in it regardless of whether it was good for your health or not?
Here are some examples of how someone could practice the art of mindful movement in their own lives.
Person #1 is suffering from chronic illness. In most cases, overly strenuous exercise is the very LAST thing someone with chronic illness(es) should be doing. So instead of forcing herself to go for a run, she chooses to go for a walk around the park and do a gentle yoga video at home later that day.
Person #2 is aware of her physical limitations, but she woke up feeling extra energetic today. She decides to do something different and does a short HIIT (high intensity interval training) session on her rebounder — with full permission to stop any time she wants or if things feel like too much. She decides that the next time she has a surge of energy like this, she wants to experiment with some kettlebells for a little strength training, but knows that she needs to be cautious not to over-do things on any given day.
Person #3, woke up feeling super tired and run down. She’s under a lot of stress at home and work and even though she loves her daily walks, she thinks it would be a good idea to skip it today. Instead, she decides to spend some time on her patio, soaking up some sun, and doing some gentle stretching while she meditates.
Sometimes the best mindful movement is recognizing that taking the day off of moving is exactly what your body needs. When you practice mindful movement, YOU get to make these empowered choices for yourself every day.
That is why mindful movement matters.
If you’ve been struggling with mindful movement, or just want a better relationship with food and your body overall, I can help. Click here to schedule a complimentary strategy session with me. We can take a look at where you are, where you want to go, and how we can best get you there. My mission is to help women like you find the peace you’ve been searching for so you can step into a life filled with freedom and joy.
Here’s to a deeply nourished YOU!